Fall trends: harem pants

 Lately "trend" has become a dirty word, and I can kind of understand why. Fashion has always had trends—the definition of the word itself means something popular or current—but social media has definitely sped up the lifespan of a trend, and fast fashion retailers, particularly those of the drop-ship variety from overseas, have been happy to comply with this lightning-fast cycle. Not to mention, we're coming out of a longer "quiet luxury" moment that emphasized more timeless, neutral, trend-agnostic pieces versus novelty. This is not a dig on minimalism; I understand why so many people gravitate toward a look that feels more classic—there's a certain ease to it, and figuring out what to wear can be challenging enough. That said, quiet luxury itself is a trend, and sure, it's fun to cosplay as old money. Which is exactly the point: Fashion should be fun. It's fun to try on something new—a trend!—and see if fits. If it doesn't, or if you don't even want to try it on, you don't have to participate! As I always say, life is short and you should wear what you love. But sometimes you don't know what you love if you're not trying new things. Case in point, I thought the mere idea of oysters was gross until I was starving and at a party where they were the only food that was being served. Out of desperation, I tried some. Guess what? Oysters are delicious. Which brings me to the harem pant.


10 things to buy during the Madewell Insider sale

Can you believe that Madewell has been around for almost 20 years now? J.Crew's millennial spinoff debuted in 2006 and pretty quickly eclipsed its older sister just as the Jenna Lyons era was coming to an end—to the point that Madewell was almost spun off into a separate, publicly traded company. I feel like it has had a few ups and downs over the last few years, after its head designer (and secret weapon) Joyce Lee—who has a great Substack, btw—resigned in late 2023; its brand president recently stepped down too, but Madewell has reportedly brought in the jean-ious (bad pun, sorry) Benjamin Talley Smith to revamp its denim line. I've remained a fairly enthusiastic Madewell shopper throughout—they do elevated basics really well, and they've recently been churning out some great dupes of accessories from more high-end designers like Khaite and Toteme. And while Madewell's prices are pretty reasonable to begin with, they have special sales for Insiders several times a year, and to enjoy the discount, all you need to do is sign up for their email list. The current Insiders Event is 30% off sitewide and runs through September 29th. I've already got a shopping bag full of items I can't wait to try, but first, here are the pieces I wear the most and highly recommend.

The Kick-Out Crop is one of my all-time favorite jeans

What to wear with baggy denim shorts

I remember my first pair of denim shorts. I had just seen Dirty Dancing and was obsessed with the pair that Jennifer Grey wore as Baby. Like hers, mine were long and fitted almost to the knee with a rolled cuff. I wore them religiously until they didn't fit anymore, and while I have owned many denim shorts since then, I haven't loved any of them as much as that first pair. While I was very into them at first, I don't find myself reaching for the Madewell shorts I bought a few years back and as the years pass, I'm feeling more wary of shorter shorts. That said, I do enjoy shorts as an option when the weather is warm, and as a denim lover, I'm always up for an alternative to longer jeans. I was influenced to buy a pair of uncharacteristically (for me) baggy denim shorts from Old Navy—I sadly can't remember which Substack newsletter had recommended them—and when I first tried them on, I thought these are not for me. But then on a warm Saturday afternoon when I just wanted to be cool and comfortable, I decided to give them another try. This time I was wearing a slim-fitting tank top and all of a sudden it came together: You can wear baggy denim shorts without looking sloppy. It's just a matter of getting the proportions right. 


An honest review of Versed makeup

Let's face it, makeup is getting more and more expensive. (I'm looking at you, $160 Louis Vuitton lipstick.) But while the luxury brands are luxuriating, thankfully, there are a lot of brands looking out for us girls on a budget. One of my favorite drugstore, or mass, brands is Versed. I never hesitate to recommend their skincare products—you can read my honest review here—which have been around for several years and top out at about $21. Versed recently branched out into makeup, and while I haven't tried the entire line yet, I've definitely found some favorites. Versed sent me a bunch of products to try for free, but the following are my honest and unfiltered opinions.